I have had 3 posts I having been trying to get the time to put together, but it just seems to be tough finding the time to do it right. I want to write about the automotive requests for bailout. Sorry @ScottMonty, but I think bankruptcy is probably the only answer, especially for GM. I also wanted to post a cool presentation on engagement in social media. Of course that is an easy one to embed, I just have not gotten around to it.
So I apologize for being so busy. Today’s post is really just a random vent. Partially due to changes in society and the way sometimes people over react. Now before I vent about what occured I want to say that I actually love the day care that we take Robyn and Lily too. They are Children of America. In the past we used Malvern School which we really found to be horrible. After investigating numerous options we did come to the realization that Children of America was the right choice. Even after today I still firmly believe that. We also like everyone of the teachers, including the one that this post is about. The director of the center is phenomenal, which is not a compliment I would pay to many people. She is a strong leader and a Customer advocate. She also is great at dealing with the parent, kids and employees.
Well the story actually starts a little over a month ago. Back in October this one teacher told my wife she was concerned regarding 2 factors: Robyn was not crawling and when she is cold her feet get blue. At the time my wife explained that the doctor was not concerned about the circulation (we already discussed it with the pediatrician and she laughed at it) and we were not concerned about the crawling. My wife further explained the reason we were not concerned about the crawling because when our angel Gia was around that age she too did not crawl. Gia had a great physical therapist who we loved. At the time she told us crawling is not a milestone and how some kids go right to walking. Now that I think about it, Lily pretty much did this too. She went on to tell my wife how studies have shown that babies that do not crawl grow up as poor readers. I know my wife was very clear with her thoughts on the topic. The next day I firmly explained that it is her job to inform us of what she sees, but until she receives her medical degree to leave the medical advice to the doctor. This coming from someone who absolutely hates doctors (no offense to anyone reading this that may be a doctor, but I can write a book just on that topic!). Anyway like good parents we still discussed with the doctor. You can guess, the doctor laughed at this too.
We provided the doctor’s update moments after the appointment.
So that brings us to Friday. About exactly a month after the doctors appointment. She begins to tell me that Robyn has been happier during tummy time but she is concerned because of the crawling. I quickly explained that the doctor is not so she does not have a right to be concerned. She then continued. So I interupted her and told her until she receives her medical degree I am not interested. She then continued. I explained that the discussion was over. She tried to continue but I just walked out. I did immediately bring this to the attention of the director, and I know she will care for it.
This really just brings me to some of my random thoughts for this post. I am not that old, but when I was a kid I never remember seeing people overly worry about children meeting different milestones. I never remember anyone that would act this way, whether at a day care or in life. Yet over the years, mainly with Gia, I have seen numerous people provide their “insights” and thoughts on how a parent should handle things. It seems like we have become overly involved sometimes in other peoples business. I also wonder if we sometime over concentrate on some these medical concerns. Did you know many schools and day cares do not allow peanut butter due to allergies. I know these allergic reactions can be very bad and support the restrictions if it even helps prevent one incident. I just find it interesting that this was never a problem when I was in school and now all of a sudden it is such a big problem. I m guessing the allergy existed back then, but I do not remember anyone that had it. Yet now I know a number of people that have it, or had it but then grew past it. I have always found it interesting. Is it just that I am a parent now and notice these things more?
Sorry for the random thoughts in today’s post. Just wanted to take a little time to vent