Posted on : 27-06-2009 | By : Frank Eliason | In : Customer Service, Social Media
Tags: Angry People, Mean People Suck
Years ago my wife had this bumper sticker on her car. It used to crack me up, but it is so true. I know all too well that life is too short and we should live each day to the fullest. I always strive to do what is best for everyone I come in contact with. Maybe this is why I love serving Customers? In recent weeks I have come across numerous examples of personal attacks, deeply angry people at relatively silly things, and just a lot of unpleasantness. During that same time I have seen people going through hell and they are the most upbeat people around. Why is there such a variance? Why can’t people just learn to be nice and respectful to others?
I know what it is like to be angry, and I do get that way at times. For those that have seen this, I want to apologize. In fact today I read a blog post that was completely inaccurate and referred to me as an unbelievable creep, of course this was someone that references internet trouble as ‘ass rape.’ The actual trouble was wifi signal reaching all points in a home, particularly a wireless printer. Which during last call was working when I was off the phone. I have been deeply offended, as I am sure other men and women would be, with the terms being used. Anyway this made me angry to read and I was determined to figure out a response. I was so angry it was taking me away from what is truly the most important aspect of life, my own family. Those that know me also know the truth so at this point it was not worth letting an angry person destroy my weekend.
My wife made a good point, everything is relative. Maybe individuals that are mean to others and angry have been so lucky in life that they find little things to be angry about because they have not dealt with worse. How lucky are they? I wish I had such luck in life. But actually, I am happy that I am who I am. Yes it sucks that some negative things have happened in my life, and I would do anything to have Gia back, but I would never want to live life as an angry person. It is just too short and I would prefer to live life to the fullest. You never know what may happen. We sometimes joke that you can get hit by a bus, but the reality is you can be.
For me I am going to strive to be the best person to everyone I come in contact with. If I ever was mean to anyone, I also want to take this time to apologize. When I am, please point it out to me.